'Buffy The Vampire Slayer' Actor Faces Domestic Violence Charge In 2017 Attack On Girlfriend At Palm Springs HotelBrendon, 48, was arrested on Oct. 17, 2017 after getting into an argument with his girlfriend, then pulling her arm and “violently” pulling her by her hair at the bar of the Saguaro Palm Springs hotel, according to Palm Springs police Sgt. William Hutchinson.